The policy suggests preboarding so you should be able to utilize that instead of purchasing EarlyBird Check-In. You should also consider purchasing the extra seat that is described in the policy.
Regarding seatbelt extensions, here's what the policy says:
"Only one seatbelt extension may be used and only seatbelt extensions provided by Southwest Airlines are approved for use onboard our aircraft."
Have a great trip!
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