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Single Mom Flying with Minor Son - Questioned about written consent of father???

I_Love_Law916
Explorer C

Hello Everyone! I had a particularly frustrating experience today at the Burbank airport. 

 

I booked a flight from Burbank to Sacramento (confirmed, as a paying customer, not standby at this point) but there was an issue with TSA (unrelated to me), so a bunch of people were running late for flights because of it. I missed my first flight because of that but was told i could get on the next one. 

 

I got through security and went to the customer service desk at the next gate to print my boarding pass and my son's, and the Southwest employee started questioning me about written consent from my son's father for me to fly with my son from Burbank to Sac (not even across state lines, it was a direct flight). I said I didn't have that and shouldn't need it to fly with him. The employees (whom I will not name publicly like this) basically said I couldn't get a boarding pass for my son and they wouldn't put us on the next flight. I tried to ask for a manager and get some help but Southwest's response was basically... like, how do we know that this isn't a kidnapping situation .... basically they wasted over an hour trying to "figure out" if they could let me fly with him and by the time they agreed I was allowed to do so, the next flight was now FULL (all those standby people that missed their flights due to TSA issues that were in line behind me). Therefore, we were unable to fly to Sacramento today and attend the event in Sac that we were trying to get to.  

 

For background: I am a single mom with sole physical custody of my 5 year old son (his dad left 3.5 years ago, haven't seen him since). My son and I have different last names but I have his passport and birth certificate and a court order verifying sole physical custody awarded to me which I also produced. 

 

Is this normal?? I know people fly with their kids and step children all the time. I have never seen or heard of anyone being questioned like this or denied boarding due to a "lack of written consent" from the other non-present parent/legal guardian. Has anyone else experienced this?? and if so, what can I do to avoid this in the future??

 

I got a refund for the flight but i'm concerned about booking another one with Southwest in the future because I don't want this to happen again.... 

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Re: Single Mom Flying with Minor Son - Questioned about written consent of father???

dfwskier
Aviator A

Human trafficking is an issue that airlines are paying attention to. I'm afraid you got stuck in that web. 

 

In the future, I guess I'd suggest that you carry a copy of your son's birth certificate which would clearly establish that you are his mother.

 

I'm sorry the mess happened to you. I think you should complain to the airline about the extreme stress the situation caused you and your son. You and he should receive an apology and vouchers good for future travel on Southwest. To do so click on "contact us" below and proceed.

Re: Single Mom Flying with Minor Son - Questioned about written consent of father???

DancingDavidE
Aviator A

@I_Love_Law916 wrote:

My son and I have different last names but I have his passport and birth certificate and a court order verifying sole physical custody awarded to me which I also produced. 

 

Is this normal?? I know people fly with their kids and step children all the time. I have never seen or heard of anyone being questioned like this or denied boarding due to a "lack of written consent" from the other non-present parent/legal guardian. 

 


I don't know how the items you provided wouldn't have settled the issue. The court order should supersede any desire to see a letter of consent.

 

I would definitely write in to the airline for an apology and clarification. 

 

This sounds like an overzealous agent to me, but not being in that situation I can't say for sure.

 

 

Home airport MDW, frequent visitor to MCO to see the mouse.

Re: Single Mom Flying with Minor Son - Questioned about written consent of father???

Passenger1C
Aviator C

I hope you got the names of everyone involved. How embarrassing and frustrating for you. So sorry that this happened. 


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